The holiday season should be a time of joy, but if you're dealing with a narcissist, Christmas can feel more like a battleground. The guilt, manipulation, and emotional drain can make it hard to enjoy the festivities. But the good news is, with the right tools and mindset, you can protect your peace and reclaim your holiday experience.
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Being cut off from your family and painted as the scapegoat is a heavy burden. You spend years feeling isolated, misunderstood, and like you don’t quite belong.
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The "mother wound" is an emotional pain many of us carry, caused by a difficult or strained relationship with our mothers. It's the hurt that comes from feeling like your emotional needs weren't met, or feeling unseen, unloved, or unsupported during your upbringing.
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Have you ever wondered why it’s so hard to walk away from a relationship that you know isn’t good for you? Whether it’s with a partner, a family member, or a close friend, breaking free from toxic dynamics can feel nearly impossible. One of the biggest reasons people stay stuck in these unhealthy situations is a deep-seated fear of abandonment.
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A Narcissistic mother is a parent who exhibits excessive self-centeredness, entitlement, and a need for admiration. She often prioritizes her own needs and desires over those of her children, leading to emotional neglect and manipulation. Understanding the effects of having a narcissistic mother on daughters is crucial to recognize and address the profound impact it can have on their lives.
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Discover the top 5 ways to heal the pains of narcissistic parenting with our comprehensive guide to childhood trauma recovery. Learn practical strategies for overcoming the lasting effects of growing up with a narcissistic parent, and find the support you need to move forward with confidence and resilience. With expert insights and actionable tips, this guide is an essential resource for anyone looking to break free from the cycle of trauma and reclaim their emotional wellbeing.
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Growing up with traumatic experiences can have a long-lasting impact on our lives and relationships. It can create a vicious cycle of pain, fear, and trauma that may seem impossible to escape. But, breaking this cycle of trauma is crucial for our mental and emotional well-being. It can help us heal from our past and build a healthier, happier future.
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Do you find it hard to cope with the aftermath of having narcissistic parents?
Are you caught in a damaging pattern of abuse and trauma, feeling powerless to escape it?
You're not the only one in this situation.
This guide provides practical advice on healing from the effects of narcissistic parenting, including tips on how to set boundaries, practice self-care, and build healthy relationships. Take control of your life and start healing today.
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When it comes to resilience and forgiveness, I know that I am being hard on myself. As someone who has been a trauma and narcissistic abuser victim, I can totally relate to the things I am covering in this blog post.
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If you're struggling with your mental health, it's important to reach out for help. Unfortunately, there is still a lot of stigma around mental health, which can make it difficult to talk about. But it's so important to find someone to talk to – whether that's a friend, family member, therapist, or life coach. If you're not sure where to start, here are some resources that can help.
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Establishing goals is a common practice towards the end of the year. It's a great way to reflect on what you've achieved and look forward to how you can build upon it for the future.
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I understand it can be really hard to leave an abusive relationship, and some never do, but for your own interest and for those you love, the best way is to get out of the abusive relationship in a safe way.
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Trauma can be a shattering experience.
A traumatic experience can leave people feeling shattered. They may start to question their beliefs about themselves as well as other people and the world around them.
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Tragedy at the holiday table is inevitable—trust me! A phone call from your mother will most likely mention something along the lines of “oh, we need to talk.” The only thing more predictable than getting a phone call from her is how she'll use that opportunity to express her strong opinions on how you should be spending Christmas.
What is Life Coaching?
Life coaching aims to help people identify, understand and resolve life issues. It is often used to improve mental health and deal with emotional problems.
The first step for someone who wants to get their life together is to find a life coach that they resonate with. From there, they can start by setting goals for themselves and choosing what aspects of their lives they want to work on.
If you're feeling fried, run-down, and overwhelmed by life, that you don't have time for relationships but are interested in a personal development program, and want a fun learning experience along the way, then The Renew YOU – Love Your Life! 3-month personal development coaching program is perfect for you.
We have all felt stuck or uninspired at some point in our lives. It's inevitable that this happens. You think it will go away, but your heart makes no effort to fix anything. It's the same old, same old.
We hear this word Narcissism being thrown around a lot these days. What does it mean? Is the person I am dealing with a Narcissist?
Narcissism is a spectrum disorder, which means it exists on a continuum, ranging from a few narcissistic traits to the full-blown personality disorder.
We as daughters of mothers with Narcissistic traits can be on the receiving end of the moods and behaviours of a mother with some or many of the narcissistic traits.
Compliments make us feel good, both giving and receiving them.
Compliments help us communicate that appreciation we feel toward one another. "I would define a compliment as any sort of sincere appreciation of a trait in someone or a behaviour or an appearance", Berger says. And that makes us feel good.
"Compliments can be a useful tool to nurture and enhance relationships", says psychotherapist Lindsay Liben, LCSW. "Ultimately it contributes to deeper, more intimate connection".
Do you struggle with just being you?
Do you struggle with creating and maintaining your Personal Boundaries?
We all know what a physical Boundary is like a fence, a moat or a locked door, but, do we know what our personal boundaries are?
If we do know what our Personal Boundaries are, do we know how to implement said boundaries.
Most of us have trouble setting and also keeping boundaries when it comes to personal issues and relationships. The more personal the relationship the harder the boundary to keep.
A little planning and forethought can go a long way.
If your child is suffering from separation anxiety, there are lots of things you can do to help her.
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